Life is short.
Don't be too bothered with what people
think about you.
That's what i always tell myself.
I am unique in my own ways.
I admit that i am imperfect.
If i kept thinking about why that person
is looking at me, what that guy
would think about me, wouldnt i
be living a world to suit others?
Yes i will be considerate.
Yes i will be responsible.
Yes i will obey rules.
If you keep doing things base how people
will judge you, your life wont be happy.
In the worse case scenerios,
you will be buying a shirt based on
what other people would like to see you in.
This is pretty dumb.
Or maybe you should say yes because
that guy want you to say for his request.
When you are young, you think about
having a good looking girlfriend.
You think that good looking girls would prefer
good looking guys.
When you gets older, you realised that
it is time to come to reality.
It is really not that easy to find a good looking
girl that LIKES YOU.
good looking girls and boys will also
encounter the same problems
just like any couples in this world.
Appearance is not a bond..so guys... wake up,
don't be too worried about looks anymore..
People don't like you because you have
great bodies and looks.
They like your sincerity, your guts, your
sense of justice, your love for your friends.
Unless the remarkable girl friend said:
"oh.. my BF is flirting with other girls, but
hey.. he is handsome so i shld forgive him"
As you grow old, you realised that everybody
around you are ageing.
You will realise that appearance only satisfy
your eyes.
20 years down the road.
I gaurantee that your once gorgeous boyfriend
or girlfriend is going to be....
not that good looking anymore.
What you see is no longer the appearance,
but the inner beauty of that person.
Look for good attributes like honesty, responsible, good
attitude, willing to tolerate you. etc.
that will last in the relationship for the years
to come... although some people
might change.. ( exceptional )
If money can give you happiness, then go find
a wealthy spouse. Just like parents..
they work hard to make money.
They have a lot of money.
They hire a maid, buy a lot of toys.
When you are young, you think that you are happy
to have lots of toys, piano, air con, big rooms
when you grow up, you feel that what
accompanies you throughout your childhood
are some expensive toys, maids, swimming pool..etc
Where are your parents?
Imagine this.. after school, you and your friend
is waiting to be fetched.
The mother of your friend, carried a small umbrella
to shelter your friend while she is getting drenched.
As for you, your dad's worker drove your dad's
car to fetch you.
Maybe you think you are lucky...
Your mind tells you that you are lucky..
what about your heart?
Money = power..
Gives you cars, houses, cards, priviledge, clubbing...
But then i can tell you.
The joy of having everything on earth is also
very similar to the joy of
enjoying every single day making an honest living..
the accomplishment of everyday work, everyday
success in small things.
As you grow slowly from having no money
to buying your first computer.
That is also a joy.
Joy depends on what you see in life.
If you think money makes you happy.
Then so be it.
I NEVER SAY THAT MONEY IS NOT IMPORTANT.
everything that i wrote here is my own
preference.. you can agree with me
or disagree with me.
