I don't know what to write already.
Wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait
wait wait wait wait wait wait wait wait
Keep waiting and waiting.
until something is about to happen
then you are told that you need to
wait somemore.....
I hate that feeling.
Screwed up because of poor time management?
No... it's because the other people are impatient?
Maybe most people in this world are numbed.
You hear me? Numbed..why numbed?
They are so badly affected that when somebody
do a good thing to them, they don't know how
to appreciate.
You know what.
To me, we humans do not need rules or laws to
live in this world.
We only need to follow our consience and our hearts.
Maybe it is because we are always controlled by
those rules and regulations that we become dependent
on them.
Our mind cannot differentiate what is right and what is
wrong except, doing what will be scolded or fined and
doing what will be rewarded.
I may be wrong but this is my point of view.
So how....
You want people to be kind to you and yet,
you do not want to be kind of people.
You want them to help you and yet
you find it troublesome to help them.
Its understandable that one should not be asking
a reward or something in return for the help
one has given, but don't you have the urge to help
back?
I don't know how many people have really
succeeded in a relationship.
I know its super hard.
Career is more practical and easier.
Career won't judge you by your looks,
it judges mostly on talents and attitudes.
So, if you like somebody.
Maybe, you need to think twice or maybe...
force yourself to dislike that person to eliminate
those crazy thoughts that will hinder your progress?
The following article is taken from the net.
Many of us think of relationships as a justification for our existence, as if our lives are pointless without someone we love and who loves us. That dangerous premise leads us to believe that there is a void to fill, a section of our selves to complete.
That's why we have trophy husbands and wives… a feeling of loss and hopelessness when our partner leaves us… a sense of insecurity when our partner seems to be interested in someone else.
Before you even consider going on a date, ask yourself - are you happy with who you are? Can you be yourself with someone you have an interest in? Do you have enough faith in yourself to trust your partner?
Low self esteem is arguably the main reason for the breakdown of relationships. It may not be the trigger, but it probably is the slow-acting venom.
If your self esteem is low, you probably think of your relationship as the pillar that's holding up your life. If it cracks or falls, you'll go along with it. Your thoughts are consistently tinged by suspicion, you're anxious, you're unforgiving, you ignite into flames of wild fury, you try your best to keep your relationship safe - in other words, you try to keep exposure to the outside world to DVDs starring Kate Hudson.
Now, does that sound particularly attractive?
We have to understand that we do not have the right to anyone. No one was born to love us forever. That marriage certificate, that laser pledge at Suntec City, that handmade card - romantic, yes, but not eternally binding contracts. Or sentences. A relationship is not a prison.
A relationship is a walk through a field with no discernible end. You have no idea where this journey will take you, but you hold each others' hands, look hopefully towards the horizon, and stride confidently forward anyway.
Very often, you can ruin a perfectly fine relationship by demanding constant reassurance or displaying suspicion. Do you require your partner to regularly show his or her affection for you? Do you judge every action, question every motive? Do you trust your partner enough to know that the occasional lack of attention doesn't mean he or she no longer loves you?
We have to understand that human beings have certain primal urges. And some of those do not concern our partners. That doesn't mean we're immoral or unfaithful. Men ogle. So do women. When you display your displeasure at your partner's wayward eyes, you are showing insecurity. And insecurity is never attractive… or worth committing to.
I have finished my say.