Thursday, January 26, 2006
There are twelve ways in which people escape accountability by saying things like:1) I'll try2) If____, then____!3) I forgot!4) It's not my fault.5) I had no choice.6) I can't 7) I had no control.8) I'll wait and see.9) I don't know!10) It's not my job11) That's just the way i am.12) Nobody told me.( Taken from a reliable source )Erm...the usage of the above phrases are going to have a negative impact on you, so try not to execute or say them. Please ask for feedback from your friends or family members about your personality and attitude and try to improve on that. If you choose to ignore the flaws in your attitude, then you are just inviting troubles to your life in future. There is a high tendency of you defending yourself when somebody has pointed out your weakness. You will defend your ego by either argueing back or scold that person. But do you know that because of your harsh reaction towards the feedback, people start to refrain from pointing out your mistakes. This causes you to remain ignorant about your flaws and mistakes and you will continue doing that in your life unconsciously. Ultimately, you cause yourself to suffer. When you find that your life is not as good as you expect, you start to feel sad and deprived.Even if we fall into dire straits such as being poor or being cheated, etc, we still must hold on to our virtue, by not turning lawless or seeking revenge,etc.The small man, however, does the opposite.
Q life is a long stretch of road
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